How do you deal with your ex's new wife?

I have 4 children and since my ex has been remarried, there have been 2 broken arms. One of my youngest has been verbally abused by the new wife, and 2 weekends ago they were made to drink liquor while my ex and his new wife sat there laughing. I KNOW they are telling the truth, somebody always rats out the other if they are not. I want to do something but my hands are tied. I don't have my own place yet (big enough for all 4 boys) and I can't directly chew his *** out because he will start threatening me. PLEASE tell me how to deal with this SOB and his new wife.How do you deal with your ex's new wife?
It needs to be reported to Social Services. If you allow it to happen and you know it is going on you are just as guilty as they are for doing it. I suggest you try and find a bigger place and make him pay child support on the boys. What they are doing to the children is wrong..... It is obvious they need help with some issues and he needs to read up on how to be a better parent.


If he is allowing his wife to do this, he as many issues and needs counseling .


As for him threatening you, report these threats to the police to have them on record in the event something should happen to you.How do you deal with your ex's new wife?
You need to contact child welfare. Your kids would be better of in a foster home than in their current situation. You need to do what is right for you kids even if it hurts.
You need to contact child protective services right away. There is no telling what else will happen while you wait until you get your own place. Maybe they can help you with that as well.
I think your only option is a court order for the protection of the children.
How did the arm get broken? From the father? From the new wife? Or was it an accident? Children will/do get broken arms. WHY were they MADE to drink alcohol? Something doesn't quite seem to sit right on that one. My suggestion would be to stop letting the kids go over there if your concerned they aren't being supervised correctly. You'll probably have to get it court ordered, supervised visitations or something, if your ex, puts up a stink. But maybe he won't, and you can just keep the kids at home, instead of them having to go over there. That way no one has to deal with your ex, and his new love.
I suggest you go to the authorities such as some Children Welfare authority.
MOVE ON, LEAVE THERE
Let the authorities deal with you ex and his wife. File a formal complaint and contact you local child protection agency. If you can't talk to him because he's an a**hole, you should have a woman to woman talk with her.





You have to put your foot down and not allow your children to be treated that way. Also contact a lawyer if you can. It will take legal means to deal with this.





Good Luck and I wish the best for you and your sons.
Before I went to Child Protective Services I would have my own place. If they were to take the kids and you did not have a place big enough, they would place the kids elsewhere. My suggestion, get your tail in gear and provide them with what they need in case that happens!
Take him back to court, prove that he and his new wife aren't providing the safe environment your kids need to be raised in. If you have to hire a PI to watch a few hours and have proof. Of coarse to do this your lawyer has to approve and give you the names of PIs he uses. But if all is true you really need to get those boys to a safer place and soon before more than just an arm gets broken.
I think you should go to court and report it to the police.
If you do not hurry and get your children something else (worse than a broken are) can happen. Even if your place is not big enough they need to be with you!