Monday, August 16, 2010

Dealing with your ex?

My bf and I broke up a month ago. It was a shakey break up, lots of arguments and drama. he started acting weird once he got this new job and was blowing me off every weekend. when i confronted him about all of it we agreed to try things differently and he just ended up ******* me waiting for him one nite we had plans for nearly two hours. well we got into a huge blow out fight in front of his room mates. days after the fight i hadn't heard from him so i called him. he didnt answer my calls. ive been going through alot of health probs and he doesnt give a ****. we haven't spoken since. its been almost a month and a half. well i found out through friends he started ******* the girl from his work. apparently him and his room mate pass her back and forth. i still love him and wish things would have worked. im the type of her person who is willing to try and learn from mistakes. he just isnt, so i dont think will ever work in a relationship. im really hurt that hes messing with her and it just confirms my suspesions. Then just a few days ago someone told me they arent hooking up anymore. I just want an opinion like i wonder if he was cheating on me with her or if he just ****** her when hes was drunk. ANYWAY im going to a show this weekend and found out hes going to be there and with the girl. what am i to do? im not missing the show. i just dont know how to react. like if he looks at me, do i act cool and wave? or just try to avoide them? i dunno if they are all on each other im def. going to be hurt. but i dont want it to ruin my evening. any suggestions ? thnksDealing with your ex?
Find a guy to go with and just have fun and don't worry what he's doing.Dealing with your ex?
Oh, please. Now you are making excuses for him that if he was drunk it was ok?





You avoid this pig like the plague and learn from this; don't deal with trash.





Have respect for yourself, don't think a guy is the answer to happiness. Make something of your life and move on, quickly.
Firstly this has nothing to do with marriage or divorce.





Secondly , yes it sounds like he was cheating you.





You need to stay away from him. Move one and find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated.
This might be hard to do, but totally ignore him. He's not worth any effort at all. Period. The best thing you can do is realize that he is probably full of STD's.
oh my goodness.


are you seriously saying you dont know what to do ?!


why not just move the hell on.


f**k him


you dont need the drama anyway.


make him jealous


and act like you dont care.
Why do you care about a douche like that. If he treated you like **** you shouldn't even give him the time of day. Move on.
If they spot you at the show , then ignore him, especially if he waves first, that might hit him where it hurts.
turn your head away from them and go enjoy the show, Not theirs.
Is it possible for u to have a date for the show?? cus if u could...That would do great..anyway, it sounds like the guy doesnt care abt u anymore...and he's nt worth the heartbreak and suffering...





Anyway, if ur there at the show..just act cool....pretend ur ok with him dating this gurl..and pretend u've moved on..the more u act like u care,the more complications u guys will have in this relationship and prob he dating another gurl is for the best..and i think u shud too...but meanwhile during the show, just enjoy the show..and dont act weird..jsut be normal as if nothing wrong is going on..It helps the situation...and last but not least, i hope u willl do fine this weekend. :) u have my prayers.
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