If u knew that u hurt your ex boyfriend badly and found out later that he turned gay, would u feel guilty?

i know of 2 people that this has happened to for those of u that believe people are born to be gay. my moms uncle was going to get married and found out his woman slept with his best friend. later on he turned gay. i guess some people feel so hurt they cant deal with it and turn the opposite direction. but would u feel guilty? how would u react?If u knew that u hurt your ex boyfriend badly and found out later that he turned gay, would u feel guilty?
being gay is not a matter of ';turning'; gay its when things like that happen that people realize their own sexuality and that they may as well be better off with men then with women.If u knew that u hurt your ex boyfriend badly and found out later that he turned gay, would u feel guilty?
I'm not a chick, but knowing that you hurt somebody so terribly but they realized that they could no longer find any good in the opposite sex has to wear heavy on someone's conscience.





I'm not saying being gay is a bad thing, but to make someone completely give up on a sex is kind of nerve racking.





Of course, in case they're just experimenting, they've always been gay, but to be the one to make them finally realize that they have no interest in the opposite sex because you finally pushed them to realize it. Like holeemel said, you don't turn gay from being hurt by women, but you can realize your sexuality from figuring out you don't mend well with the opposite sex.
Sexual orientation is not a response to any one event. It is a lifestyle choice as well as the possible result of genetics, role modeling or the absence of it and early childhood learning experiences.


A woman sleeping with his best friend could not ';turn him'; gay. Do not blame yourself for that.
No. You don't just 'turn' gay because women have hurt you. That's a load of crap. You are naiive as hell if you think that has anything to do with the reality of being homosexual.


So no, I wouldn't feel guilty. I might feel like i had been deceived because he had been gay all along.


But you don't just turn gay, dude, if anyone tells you that they did, they are lying to you. That is preposterous. Are you like 12 years old or something?
i will tell you what i think about this so call turn gay thing i think this person was gay all along having sex with a women is not the reason there is no one can tell one way or another i would not feel guilty this is what this person choose to do.
no beceuse being gay dont happen becaeuse they got hurt! so dont feel bad!