How do you deal with your boyfriend's crazy ex-girlfriend who has no respect for relationship boundaries?

She leaves voice mail messages telling me I'm psycho, she comes by his house at 10:30 at night and knocks on the door, she drives by his house, she e-mails him and invites him to her house, she leaves mean notes on his car when I'm there, but then makes a CD full of love songs for him.How do you deal with your boyfriend's crazy ex-girlfriend who has no respect for relationship boundaries?
Sounds like the babys mama drama I had to deal with. You leave that is what she wants. You beat her at her own game you WIN!!! She is going to do anything and say anything to make you look bad. He is with you not her. You need to tell him to leave her ALONE FOR GOOD! Laugh at her when you see her, make her feel stupid. If ya'll come in contact, LAY HER OUT!! jk No but just point out he is with you not her and to get over it!How do you deal with your boyfriend's crazy ex-girlfriend who has no respect for relationship boundaries?
I suggest you hire a lawyer to review the anti-stalking laws in your state and to file a restraining order.
I will F**k that girl up, She is totally disrespecting your space and privacy. First of how is your boyfriend responding to this, does he just sit back and watch everything or does he confront her and put her in her face.Maybe you should report her to the police too!!
tell her to back off and that hes not with her anymore cuz hes with u...i cant stand people like that...also tell ur boyfriend to change his number and email address so that she cant contact him...but as far as the leavin notes on his car and drivin by his house i wouldnt know how to stop that except for tellin u that maybe he should move out and move sumwhere that she has no clue where hes at...this way it will break off all types of contact that she can have with him...
That is something you shouldn't have to deal with. Your boyfriend has to tell her to stop doing these things and if he really cares about you he would stop this crazieness.
Ignore her. Both you and BF she is just trying to get his attention. Block her number on both your cells. Throw away the notes pretend like you never got them. Seriously. I had an ex boyfriend who pulled all of these same stunts. My new boyfriend wanted to kick his A$$. I just ignored him and so did my bf. Eventually he got tired of not getting any attention and moved on.
Yeah she's definetly NOT over him. lol. Umm maybe he should fill out a police report for harrassment. Then could help. Or restraining order. She's really crazy and isn't over him yet and she's mad at you and him for being together. Don't let her ruin your relationship with him because that is what she wants!!!!! Don't let her win!