Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do you deal with your ex bf / gf while dating someone else...?

A survey...feel free to add your own thoughts...





1) Do you let him/her come over when not with your current partner?


2) Do you try and hide the fact that your ex is calling/texting you all the time from your current partner?


3) Do you meet up with your ex and not tell anyone?


4) Do you and your ex keep calling each other old pet names that you used to call each other?


5) Do you talk about your current relationship with your ex?


6) Do you make fun of your current partner with your ex?


7) Do you hide the friendship with your ex from anyone?


8) Do you ever think about how you would feel if you current partner had the same relationship with his ex as you do with yours?


9) Do you only talk to your ex when NOT around your current partner?How do you deal with your ex bf / gf while dating someone else...?
1) Do you let him/her come over when not with your current partner? Typically when a relationship is over for me, it's over. We don't do a lot of visiting. However, if we happened to remain friends and the romance was over, I see no issue with getting together on occasion for a drink or to hang out (but I wouldn't give up time with a current bf to spend it with an ex bf).





2) Do you try and hide the fact that your ex is calling/texting you all the time from your current partner? That would just make it look like something inappropriate was going on. Best to not try to hide things or it'll be assumed you are doing something worth hiding (creates huge trust issues).





3) Do you meet up with your ex and not tell anyone? I wouldn't meet up with anyone I couldn't be open about meeting up with.





4) Do you and your ex keep calling each other old pet names that you used to call each other? That wouldn't be appropriate.





5) Do you talk about your current relationship with your ex? I wouldn't go into detail, it's not their business (and I don't want details about their current relationships).





6) Do you make fun of your current partner with your ex? I wouldn't date anyone that I felt compelled to make fun of in front of others.





7) Do you hide the friendship with your ex from anyone? No, I wouldn't.





8) Do you ever think about how you would feel if you current partner had the same relationship with his ex as you do with yours? Yes, that would cross my mind and is why I treat people as I'd like to be treated and I don't do things I wouldn't want done to me.





9) Do you only talk to your ex when NOT around your current partner? If I was with my current partner and an ex called, I'd let them know I was busy and would return their call later or I simply wouldn't take the call at that time (same thing I do when any friend calls and I'm with someone).How do you deal with your ex bf / gf while dating someone else...?
I don't talk to my ex's so there really is nothing to worry about. When a relationship is over I move on - I don't dwell on the past and allow it to effect my future relationships.
I just cut ties with my exes...





But if I were still talking to an ex, I would let my current partner know about it.





it's called honesty.
its easy to forget about them if you are not in love with them anymore but if you still are then complications start arising. you can easily forget and ignore someone you don't love but some you love...........thats a mountain to climb
None of the above! An ex is an ex for a reason. It's okay to be on good terms with an ex, but that ex has no business knowing what's going on in your current relationship. That's the bottom line. You take what took place in your relationship with your ex, grow from it, and move on with your life. Simple as that.
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