How do you deal with thoughts of your ex being with someone else when you still loveher. Help me shake this.?

Going to divorce and still struggling to get past her. Makes all the love songs sad. Anyone feel this?How do you deal with thoughts of your ex being with someone else when you still loveher. Help me shake this.?
that's painful! I've experience that but i got over it.. feelings just pass and I'm not that obsessed to get him back. i tried to let him go both in mind and heart and i just did. she's not the only girl in the world. there were a lot that deserves you. easy for me to say but it can help. make yourself busy. do anything else, be with someone else, party everywhere, anything that can make you forget her.How do you deal with thoughts of your ex being with someone else when you still loveher. Help me shake this.?
You will never get over her. She has a hold on you, and your mind. She controls you like a robot. Now you must sit alone, and dream and concentrate on the next man kissing her, feeling of her, doing all sorts of nasty stuff to her. Everyday, all day. Running naked through the house, while he treats her like his piece of meat.
She's his problem now. Be glad to be rid of it all.
You need to either let her know, or move on, I figure you say this b/c she has already moved on and may have a relationship with someone else an dyou are still alone, what you need to do is find something to preoccupy your time and take you r thoughts away from her. Get back out into the dating market yourself.
Only time will help you get past things,but not enough details..for example--maybe try communicating your feelings to her maybe she doesnt know you feel this way.Maybe their is a chance for some talking on thinking of making it work..at least try..Me myself I am newly divorced and me and hubby had some ups and downs decided to get a divorce mutually..we went through with it anyway..but now 2 mos after we are getting back together and recommitting our selves to trying to malke this work.We both realized we really loved eachother and made a hasty quick decision,but are now working thru things--counseling,comunnicating and all..


So it can work and be possible of getting back together..at least put your feelings out there one last time--what can it hurt?? Divorce is just a piece of paper--it cant change whats in both your hearts if its meant to be....
It's not healthy, and it's not mature romantic 'love' if the other person isn't treating you well and interested in you. You should expect somebody to treat you well, and you should treat your partner well, and if they don't respect you and treat you well, you should cut them loose because nobody needs that. If you weren't all about your ego and whatever dependency/copdependecy issues you are hanging onto, you'd be saying, ';fine, your loss loser';, and you'd be rushing to complete the paperwork and be done with it so that you can get on with living your life and being free to meet somebody who will treat you with respect because they are interested in you.