I have no idea why girls make such a big deal out of this. I completely agree with you; a guy is still a person even after he dates your friend. Why should you sacrifice the chance to be with someone just because she used to be with him? What if you're passing up the best relationship in your life? If your friend has no feelings for him anymore then he's totally available to whoever wants to date him. The difference is, a good friend won't try to stand in the way.What is the big deal about dating your friends ex ?
Well I kind of understand your friend, If you had a boyfriend and you guys broke up how would you feel, Sad, Pissed off, and all these negative feelings. But still I dont understand why you have no feelings for her. Maybe you should think how would you feel if you were her. Anyways you are also right because you had the right to date him because well they broke up. Hope You Can Figure It Out.
Friends are meant to be your girls, the ones you run to when times are tough, your heart gets broken or you want someone to share in your joy.
She's feeling a little messed up and hurt right now and most likely a little betrayed. How would you feel if she did the same to you??
If you and this guy are serious about each other than there shouldn't be a question but if your having second thoughts than is it really worth your friendship or at least damaging it??
Either way she's gonna be hurt but ultimately the choice is yours, just hope your not losing a good friend to guy who may do the same to you.
Well, for starters... he is not just a person, if you are dating him he should be some1 special, but im guessin u just didnt think of that... but ur problem most probably is ';failure to communicate'; if she is ur friend u shuld be able to have a nice quiet chat where you explain you know its gonna need some getting used to but yu do like him, and re-assure her that you still wanna be friends... if that dont help... then tell me, but im almost sure it will
Fury
(btw the actual conversation with your friend may start a fight, just stay cool and calm and it should blow over.. do not be afraid of the conflict)
wells im in that exact situation only im the best friend
well its just super awkard and u dont want to be around ur ex and your best friend while theyre makin out cuz itd just bring back memories
so i suggest you dont date him that is if you care about your best friend more than your boy friend
she probbaly dosn't trust you and is worried that you liked him during the time you guys went out . its better to ask permission .. i guess i wouldnt like it if my friends datted my ex , but if thy asked for my permission thn i wouldnt mind so much . if she acts like its a really big deal thn she probbly still likes him .. keep ur relationship with th guy slow , %26amp; tlak it out with ur friend ( listen to her side first ) .
goodluck
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it is a big deal because that is your friend. if she was to date someone that you were with before you would be mad. you stick with you friends always even if she left a mad to be with a girl.
Because its an unwritten rule- you stay away from your friends ex! Thats why. If they were only dating a short time, or if they only went on one or two dates. Maybe it wouldnt be so bad. If it was long term , Im not sure Id be too happy with it either ! Sorry.
Because, you stick by your friends, it's one thing to like them, that is completely understandable, but if someone breaks up with your friend you are NOT supposed to date them
It's a sad state of affairs when you have to shop your friend's leftovers for a relationship.
Sad. . .
shes jealous
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