Seeing your ex with some1 new??

Have you ever walked into a pub etc and saw your ex with someone new,how did you deal with it?





I just know it`s going to happen to me sooner or later and i honestly dont know how i`ll cope.We were together 6 years and have a child together and the thought of it is killing me,i truly think i`d kill them both.Seeing your ex with some1 new??
act like it doesn't bother you. go up to them and say hello... introduce yourself as the mother of his child and then keep moving. express confidence and don't let them see that it bothers you to see them together. it will make you look like the better person and it will leave them in shock. if you let them see you bothered, you will just look crazy in their eyes and she will feel proud that she has your past man... then that will just drive you even more insane. just act like a lady and have your confidence shine through. let them be jealous of YOU. not the other way around hun :)Seeing your ex with some1 new??
it hurts and we all know it just be sure not to go up to ur kid and say ';guess what daddy got a new woman!!';


good luck


Kelse
you'be got real issues just say hi to him afterall surely you want to keep it civil for the sake of your child and then just ignore them for the rest of the night or it it bothers you that much just go someplace else. no big deal really is it?
I would go to bits inside, but if they had got on with life then I should too. Life is too short, enjoy it with your child. You will soon find someone else. Good luck. I wish you the best.
Violence is never right.





So just imagine if the opposite happened. A great mistake





could be made. Try to take-on-board what those four words





mean. Re-temper ur attitude, and try to hone that learned skill





again. Join the minority, try to adjust against the worst majority





instinct.





Good luck.
when I seen my ex in the pub with someone else,I was livid,but thats life,Im also the mother of a young adult with learning difficulties,are you scared of what the future holds for you,,please dont be, you will come through this and it will make you a stronger person,the very best of luck to you in the future.
It is going to hard theres no doubt about that. But I am sure once you have seen them once, the hardest part will be out of the way. I still find it hard seeing my long term ex now after 5 years of us being seperated, and I am with someone else! You have the added sadness that you have a child together so you are going to have to see him and he may even want ';her'; to be part of your childs life eventually too, that will be harder I should imagine. When you find yourself a new fella though it should be much better. Good luck!
you got to ponder on the fact that you must have broken up with this guy for strong valid reasons.and keep those reasons rite in front of your mind. then it wont bother you too much. so what if he is with some one else,ignore it and move on. there should be no looking back .keep fit and be confident.unless you close old doors,the new ones wont open. his chapter in your life has ended,so wether he's wid tina ,rina or his grandmom it should not matter to you.now relax and good things will happen to you and your kid.
if u accept the break then why should the ex issue bother u. Just be 9c and pretend for the periods they are there and with time u'll get over it or ask him or her back if u asked for the break.





All the best
I've seen my ex with her new fella, i really thought it would bother me a lot more (maybe B/C im seeing some one new didn't bother me as much) i just ignored her...?!





If you see them be happy, let him know whats he's miising out on..!!
SORRY TO HEAR THAT........THAT WOULD WIND ME UP....BUT JUST SMILE AT THEM AND WAVE....COR THAT WOULD PISS EM OFF....GD LUCK
Why?





Its over, if they are with somone new then its obviously over for them... seriously move on.. and up!


You just look silly if you go funny.... also if you go to prison for killing them where would your child go?? to him and this new woman?!! i dont think so!!! lol just avoid his usal haunts i guess.. good luck!
da hell...kill em both? dang u guys are no longer together so u shouldnt be mad....well 6 year relationship ud prolly still have feelings w/ him/her,wtf why did u break up wit da person...just get someone new and tell ur ex u guys had sex 2 times a day...for 5 hours ea time u guys did have sex...
Hiya, happened me at weekend, i was goin out with ex for 6 years and even though i knew all the girls he has been seeing since we split i never saw him with one until this weekend. Its a year later and i have no intention of gettin back wit him but it was still upsetting, best thing to do is just smile and say hi and then if possible make a quick exit or keep them out of eyeshot so ur not torturing urself. Try and stay strong and dont fall to pieces, leave that till u get home if necessary, few tears never hurt anyone but dont blub in front of him, ul be very unattractive :) Good luck!!
You cant let them see it, no matter how much it hurts. You'll get through it and one day you will look back and this will be like a tiny drop in the ocean that is your life and you'll think why the f*ck was i that bothered. Life is too short. x
well its hard i agree, but you should learn to let go, or opt for a new place to live in till you r mentally strong to face such scenes without the thought of murder going through ur head
yeah, those are hard things to overcome, especially with a child together.





Best be correct, it may hurt but you can always walk out and go to another pub, if they see you then you should be polite and say hello, nothing more.


Continue on and hang out with your friends and then suggest another place to go to.





Good luck hon!
no, try not 2 think like that.


it's not good 4 u, him, the new girl or ur baby.


if u ever come across this situation, u'll need 2 take a step back %26amp; 4 the sake of ur child resist any temptation 2 kill.


u have 2 get on 4 the sake of ur child %26amp; it's really not worth lowering urself 2 fisty-cuffs!


is it?


go find urself some1 better %26amp; move on.
I have, and I can say i am not looking forward to it again myself as this area of Cinci is very small. It floors you pretty hard making safe passage for the two of them really.


-NmD!
I saw my ex with another woman at a restaurant. I had the waitress take them drinks from me. When he looked my way, I told him, ';Bottoms up.'; We both laughed. Later that night he called me and thanked me for the drinks. We're friends and I had no problem seeing him with someone else. Life goes on.
Dont do anything foolish, say hello and look confident and proud dont let the guy and girl think they have defeated you!!!
say hi by nodding for greeting him then ignore him and don't look his way, if u get so uncomfortable stay for a little while then leave the place
Hasn't happened. I KNOW I'd kill them both.
Its HARD!!!! Particularly when you havent been split long - even if you broke up on bad terms and hate their guts - it is still heartwrenching to see them look at someone the way they used look at you!


My only advice is if you do see them - position yourself with your back to them - or just somewhere were you wont end up unknowingly staring at them.


xx
Yes it hurts, but don't ever let them see it, he has moved on it is time for you to do the same, try to be friends for the sake of your child, but recognize that that part of your life is over
When it happens just smile.


Dont let him see its hurting you, strut you stuff and let him see what hes missing!


Grab the nearest bloke and flirt with him, it will piss him off and make you feel better!


Then sit back and watch the look on his face when he see's your not botherd.


Try and take your mind of thinking about him by having great nights out with the girls and find a new person for yourself!
You gotta gotta gotta find someone new, dont go on killing people! cos then you'd have the rest of your life to think about what you did in a cell-- you dont want that, for your kid at least....
my, i can see jealousy starting to crop up, better deal with it before it grows
Never happened, but it's means that they have moved on and so should you.
I live in a fairly small community (Milwaukee) and it is not difficult to run into your ex with their latest fling.





It is hard, but live and let live. . .time for you to believe in yourself and move on. Do what you do, let them do as they do, so long as your child is not involved in any witness to any name calling, etc.





Best wishes