How do you deal with your boyfriends ex not wanting to let him go.?

They have a child together.How do you deal with your boyfriends ex not wanting to let him go.?
First how long have you to been together? Have you over heard him tell her there is no possibility of them getting back together. The thing is she knows she has the power to control him with that child. All she has to do is call especially if he is a great father. Let the female know that you are there to stay for example when she is around show him alot more afection, push up on him alot more let her now she had her chance but make sure he is definetly tell her that he is with someone new.How do you deal with your boyfriends ex not wanting to let him go.?
That shouldn't be your issue, it should be his. She probably has certain rights as far as seeing the kids so you have to accept that. Beyond that his contact with her should be limited only to things that are about the kids and even then there he needs to establish rules and boundaries.
Tell his to meet her in front of a City Hall or police department when they exchange the child if he has joint custody. Tell him not to spend anytime at her house, ever. This will help break this connection. Don't let her control everything.
he has responisbility so.. that ex will ever be out of the picture... it is up to your boyfriend if he love you or not. if he love you he would only treat her as his baby mom.. and nothing else...
She just found out she did not have him rapped around her finger people do this alot. It's called dont know what you have till it's gone i say she just lost out dont you he is with you so she will have to move on. Now she may use the kid's but buy law he is a the dad she has no leg to stand on. Tell her to stop because this is wrong and tell him to tell her also. If your heart say's you love him i would not let her get in his and your way she need's to step back.
She has to just deal with it. Tell him to tell her that he is not taking her back. He will be there just for the child, not her.
The three of you should have a face to face talk about the situation. Lay down sound ground rules, she needs to be told that it's over in an adult manner. If she continues to act like a child, then it might be a little more complicated because some people are just too immature to deal with in adult manner. Just be careful because there is a child involved.
I understand they have a child together, but does your boyfriend want her out of his life?? Is it him not wanting to let go or her??? Ask him first, then if it's her not wanting to let go, kick some butt!!