How do you deal with your Ex's new girlfriend who doesn't know when to mind her own business?

WHen it comes to the care my son.How do you deal with your Ex's new girlfriend who doesn't know when to mind her own business?
Tell her that unless you see a ring on her finger and a marriage certificate, she is just the girlfriend and that your son is not her concern.How do you deal with your Ex's new girlfriend who doesn't know when to mind her own business?
beat the sh*t out of her
She probably thinks the same about you... you don't know how to let go of your ex husband. Time to put the claws away. Unless she is teaching him how to shoot up, let it be. If you thought married life was hard... you haven't seen anything yet.
She's jealous %26amp; intimated by you. And those insecurities have nothing to do with you. Talk to your ex because he is the one that needs to man up and tell her to butt out!!!!
You tell your ex husband to tell her to mind her own businiess if HE doesn't then you blame HIM not HER.
I don't know your situation, but try to get along with her. She might end up their stepmom, which means you'll all be raising your son together. Make sense? You don't have to like her, but there are ways to make it work for your son. If she's trash talking your parenting to you, just don't talk directly to her. If it's behind your back, just ignore what you hear. :) Good luck
Talk to your ex only, never raise your voice, make it perfectly clear she can NEVER put a hand on your child.


All decisions should be between you and your ex only.
I had that same problem over 7 years ago! I flat out told all of his little girlfriends that under no conditions are they to try and discipline my children. They are not their mother that I am and if I found out that they tried to they would have to deal with me personally.





He had one girlfriend that actually tried to get my daughter (she was 2 at the time) to call her mommy. I overheard her and went off on her. I let her know flat out that I am her only mommy and nothing will ever change that.





Another actually spanked my son (he was about 6 at the time) and when he brought them home and I found out I let her know that she has no right to spank my children.





You have to let her know that you are his mother and she is not. That she has no right to try and tell you how to raise your son. That is between you and his father.





If she can't understand this then let your ex know that you do not want her around your child and if he has a problem with it seek a lawyer. They can advise you on what to do.
I dont know the situation but maybe shes just trying to cause trouble or maybe your not being the mother you should be. IF she is just the girl friend I wouldn't care but if she becomes the step mom and you an your x share custody she will have as much say as you to. So maybe you should talk to your x then go from there.
I cant blame you at all . I have my kids and i don't let the ex wife's boyfriends tell me a thing about my kids unless they have gifts for them then its OK you know what i mean . But why would i let a stranger tell my children crap about me and how to raise my kids she couldn't do it why would her boyfriend that has kids of his own that his ex has know anything about raising kids . Unless they have gifts or a little child support she owes then to hell with them. I don't even know if they will be together tomorrow . To me he,s like a stranger off the street telling me how to run my life.
Your ex needs to step up to the plate and be a man and tell his gf to stay out of that, that it is strictly an issue to be handled between him and you only.
Explain to her in a very calm manner that if you need her advise on raising your son you will ask her for it. Explain to her that your son is your son and you are his mother and you know what is best for him..and if all else fails, well, tell her to butt out, of course in a very calm manner...*smiles*