Dude...we've been together for a year and a half- 2 years whatever....and than we broke up on easter...and than he has another girlfriend and he is totally like...man...he treats me like crap and claims he loves me but doesnt show it in anyway...i mean in NO WAY...he just treats me like crap...I dont want no stupid answer either...I just want a guy that will treat my right and no be a douche if we break up ya know? I'm just really tired of his games...i really love him but he just pushes me away everytime he acts like this...sometimes he acts like we've never known each other...sometimes he says hi...he acts like he doesnt care about anything...he acts like we've never been together and I'm just some random girl...he acts like I'm nobody when I'm ';suppose'; to be someone he loves...is that even love? and i dont want no bull-crap answer like move on because if you were really in love you'd understand and thats not guna help so i need so real adviceHow do deal with your ex treating you like crap?
Wow sista you got some spunk :). Listen my ex girlfriend broke it with me a little over 2 months ago and I still love her.But this is the deal, I acted so weak with her that in the beginning of the split she showed me no respect at all, and then I started reading a little bit because all my buds and everyone around me told me ';ohhhh just move on';, and I didn't want to cause I loved her and I felt it, I still have love for her today.But this is the deal,she started speaking with me more when I started acting strong and let her know I was living my life just fine without her,(and I told her to cut the crap with the bs she was talking to me, I was always the nice guy but I had to set some boundries) before that she was being a real jack@*** to me, no joke. So heres my advice to you and you tell me if it gets you anywhere.Little by little when you talk to your ex, let him know your great, mention some places you've been, having a great time. Mention some people he doesn't know and that your having a great time. Doing this your planting the seed that shows your strong and have options, and having some fun. Have a couple good conversations like that, than cut him off, betcha you'll get calls or txts. I'm just telling you how it worked for me with my ex girlfriend. And I decided to cut her off for a good while, let her live life without me. It's tough to be like that but you have to not be so nice and play the game.I know you don't want to play games, but it's either that or meet someone else.I'm doing both because I learned you can't always be the nice one sometimes you have to engage in the game if you want to win or at least come out feeling like you did.How do deal with your ex treating you like crap?
Sorry, I didn't read your long comment after your question.
Firstly they are your ex for a reason, secondly you can't be friends with your ex (well, not all of them) I think it is about time that you cut your ties with this one and move on...
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