How do you deal with seeing your ex with someone else?

I'm a lesbian in Dallas and my girlfriend and I recently split after three years. We had a lot of bad things happen between us but I still love her very much. She had a friend that was suppose to be there for support, but know they have started a relationship as we were going thru the break up, also the new girlfriend have the nerves to move into the apartments next to mine. I still love my ex, but I don't know how to handle seeing her with someone else, especially b/c we still talk almost every day and she says she still loves me. She only wanted to split because we couldnt get things right, but she doesnt see herself being with this girl long term, because she feels we are soul mates, but need space. Should I remain her friend or should I try to not speak to her cold turkey?How do you deal with seeing your ex with someone else?
Sooner or later you'll realise she's not worth it..just keep your self-esteem and move on..u'll look sexy..trust me on thisHow do you deal with seeing your ex with someone else?
Cut her off, completely, and move on with your life! She's leaving you hanging, toying with your emotions, and seeing someone else. You deserve better, and you can do better!
It sounds more like she is trying to keep you on the line while she plays with the other woman. I'd walk away.
You are the only one who can make that decision. It sounds like you still have unresolved issues and feelings for her. Please listen to your heart over this and you will do the right thing.





When I see my ex, it still hurts because he left me. I am not lesbian or gay, but we all have the same feelings about relationships and love.
I cannot imagine how painful and crazy this must be for you. Not to mention confusing. Get out of your lease. Try not to be home. GET AWAY from this situation. If she really respected you--and RESPECT is a huge part of love--she would NEVER be so entirely inconsiderate and callous. She only thinks (cares) about herself and is LOVING having this girl and you strung out on the side.





PS%26gt; Have you ever dated men? Would you EVER tolerate this from a man? I don't think so. RUN. A new fabuous gal is on the horizon.
That's a tough break. If you don't talk to her, it'll show that it bothers you... if you talk to her, it'll show that it bothers you... I'm sorry, it's got to be your call.