How do you deal with your ex-husband's jealous wife?

Before my daughter was born her father and I divorced. When she was born he denied her for 6months.Her father remarried and began neglecting her.When she was eight yrs old she was being abused by my husband but no one not even me knew. The last time he hurt her so bad she ended up with two broken legs, bruises, red eyes broken bones.In an attempt give her memories she never got he,her and I have decided on something called *****sunday. Which mean that every other Sunday my daughter, her father and I will go out and do what she wants whether it be going out for pizza, going to parks etc. Its a chance for her to have some memories she never got when she was younger. He and his wife have three sons. His wife now has become jealous of the amount of time he spends with her on that Sunday. She said that I am a jealous ex and to take my daughter and go away and leave them the hell alone. She left nasty messages and worse phonecalls.She now told her sons something and they are going into a....How do you deal with your ex-husband's jealous wife?
What I don't understand is why she would be such a ***** if she married him knowing full well he had a child. If she wanted to start a clean slate with a man, she shouldn't have picked one with a child because there are always skeletons in the closet. I've been married going on 6 months, and it's difficult because I share a 2 year old daughter from a previous relationship with a very irresponsible father. My husband %26amp; I both hate his guts, but that doesn't change the fact that he is my daughter's real dad. He is respectful of the fact that he has visitation rights %26amp; grits his teeth when her dad comes to pick her up on Sundays. If this woman is leaving nasty messages %26amp; calling you - that's harrassment %26amp; you have the right to call the police on her. As for your daughter's dad, it sounds like his priorities are in all the wrong places. He's too busy trying to keep the peace that his daughter's feelings have fallen by the wayside. I'd talk to him %26amp; let him know that he's really crushed your daughter by brushing off the special sundays %26amp; see if you can't work something out to where you can get a restraining order on his new wife so she can't bother any of you while you spend some time with the child you share together. I don't get what the big deal is, it's not like you two are getting back together. You're just doing it for your daughter, so she can be happy. Anyhow, that's what I recommend. I hope everything works out for you %26amp; you don't have to deal with your ex's horrible wife anymore!How do you deal with your ex-husband's jealous wife?
wow! Well it does't sound like YOUR the jealous one, sounds like she's jealous... why does it have to be you and her dad and her... why can't she (the ex-wife) and the boys come along? I mean they are her brothers and to know that she has a family of brothers would prove beneficial to... right?
Your ex-husband new wife is ******* *****. Take your husband's abusive ways to court. They ought to straighten him up in court. This way your daughter's fondest memories wouldn't be of her father abusing her. As for that asshole your ex is married to, she needs to understand that he has a daughter. She needs to shut the **** up on those Sundays when you and your ex do something with your daughter. Forget about her and those nasty calls of hers, you have more class than to be worrying about some dumbass who's calling you the jealous one. Explain to your husband that this is his daughter and you can't have his ex ruining it for your daughter just because she's jealous with the amount of time you guys spend together. And as for his own kids, you need tell your ex that it's terrible that his wife is making his sons prevent him from leaving.
well thats nice to try to compensate but is his wife jelous of the daughter or a fact you guys are playing family time once a week and your not a ';family'; any longer. no matter what, could you blame the wife, what if the situation was reversed? maybe dad needs to be spending that time w/ her on his own or with his family now that hes apart of her life. daughter can just see by example that you and he get along and can talk. you cant go back to the past, and i would think it be more confusing you are having this ';family'; day that doesnt really exist
I'm kind of in the middle on this one. I'm not sure why both you and her dad have to be there to have good memories. How could you not notice that she was being abused, and yet the last time she ended up with two broken legs, bruises, red eyes, broken bones....etc...? And then you turn around and want to get back and have time with your ex and her on Sundays? If I was the new wife, I'd be pretty upset too. Especially if I wasn't invited. So her boys shouldn't have special memories with their dad because they aren't being abused? Sounds pretty stupid to me. While I think she's overreacting on this, I think you should have thought this through a little bit better and either be giving the time solely to your little girls dad or including her WHOLE family (half brothers and step mom included) in the Sunday memories.

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