Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How to deal with your ex saying he misses you but is moving on?

i talked 2 my ex last night. we broke up 2 months ago. i found out that after a month he began seeing someone else. he started texting me tellin me how he felt and how's he was sorry for hurting me that he will never find someone to replace me, but is seeing someone else. i don't know how to handle this. we have kids together and it's killing me. he said he doesn't see it going anywhere. he told me that i need to try to move on, but his texting confused me. he asked for a hug last night and that started all the emotional flow.How to deal with your ex saying he misses you but is moving on?
seems like he's really confused. He's seeing someone else right now and still text/call you and tells you all those stuff? it could be he's missing you when he's with the new girl. it seems to me that he's the one that is trying to move on, but rather then admitting himself and wiling to move on quickly, he tells you that. ask he is trying to do or how is he feeling right now....cause that's the only way you'll get the true answer.How to deal with your ex saying he misses you but is moving on?
move on! do it, dont totally forget about him due to the kids, and taking the kids away from him isn't the answer, but it sounds like hes playing you knowing that him seeing someone doesn't tie him to that person so he can see as many as he likes (not saying its the right thing to do) but you need to be firm stop talking to him for a while, give space for someone who will give you what you need to come into your life,because if not your going to end up in a spiral of him being in a relationship while your the 3rd person who he comes to when hes bored,wants a bit of fun or a rebound girl if he just breaks up with someone else, dont give him the choice to come back to you everytime he loses someone else.
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