How do you deal with your ex??

My third ex. husband is a complete pain and very moody.He blames me and my daughter for why his first marriage ended!I made the mistake of getting involved with a married man who was supposed to be seperated things did not work out even though he left his wife and married me because i was pregnant i never trusted him and the fighting never stoped ended after 2 yrs.He never shows up for his scheduled visitations!?How do you deal with your ex??
I'd move on with out him in the picture and enjoy life, good luckHow do you deal with your ex??
I have tried very hard over the years to get along with my ex. He makes comments when my current and I do well, makes a few stupid flirty comments BUT.... I made the same mistake of dating a spoken for man. I have paid for it time and time again, I should have known if he cheated with me, he is a cheat and would cheat on me. He is equally responsible and as far as the child, it really is his loss. Mine are adults now and he really missed out. He did not see it until he was in the hospital, alone with a heart attack. IT IS HIS LOSS. Let him own it.
try and sheild her as much as possible...... tell her how much you love her and always assure her of this. I have four kids and their dad refuses to spend time with them. He was two min. away and still wouldn't. You just have to be patient and show her how much you love her. in time she will see him for what he is. In the mean time tell him you will not tolerate him hurting your child. if he wants to see her then he needs to be consistant and not lie to her.
this is your 3rd ex.? looks like you would have experiance in dealing with ex's by now. almost afraid to give you this one to think on....


they say it always come home to you. so maybe your daughter is just getting caught in the cross-fire. sorry an hope things work out for you.
You don't deal with sociopaths. That's what they WANT you to do. They want to suck you into their web until they drive you crazy, then ask, what did I do? Or worse, see what you did!


Ignore the b a s t a r d or he will drive you crazy. Do you really want that 'som ********* near your family? Forget him and move on with your life. 'Ya don't need the a s s hole!
you need to deal with your self 1st. 3 ex husbands and you were with a married man!


you need to 1st understand a man does not complete you, he only adds to who you are, and you never fall for anyone who is involved with someone else. you should not focus on finding someone but focus on loving yourself 1st, and do what it takes to make you happy and spending time with your kids/kid. and when you think you have found the right man for you..... take your time and dont rush, friendship is the foundation for every relationship the stronger the foundation the more you can build on top of it. so take your time sweetheart and real love will find you when the time is right!
In the end it will b him being hurt...
How I deal with my ex is I never see him or talk to him. That is difficult if you have a child with the man. But if he is not showing up for his visitations, you cannot make him show up and be a good father. It's sad but true.
Your ex has clearly vacated the relationship with you and daughter. I had to save my kids from the same thing and now my 15 year old son is acting out because of his father broken promises, 2 extra marriages 2 extra babies ( all boys ). Save your kid. If he does not show up again, tell him not to bother with visitation and get your baby some therapy now. Tell that deadbeat not to promise her things that he won't follow thur with, because in the long run it's you that have to help her thur the hurt. Also tell that bum that it took two to ruin a relationship and if he love his frist wife all that great, he wouldn't have cheated in the first place.