Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How do you deal with your ex who sometimes texts you?

my ex sometimes texts me. one day he said sorry for things he did to me. the other day he said happy new year. and some more. it's been 6 months since he broke up with me. he mentioned that our friendship is lost and won't be returned so i assumed he didn't wanna be friend with me(which i was happy about ! ). do you normally txt him back? or just ignore?How do you deal with your ex who sometimes texts you?
I think you have to ignore if you really don't want to be with or friends with the person, otherwise you are just prolonging the inevitable (meaning, him getting over it and moving on completely)How do you deal with your ex who sometimes texts you?
Funny because I haven't text messaged anyone since 2009 because I don't have a cell phone anymore and well it is kinda funny to hear someone worried about a text situation because I remember when I was once so attached to my phone and it took so getting used to when I got rid of it but I survived it cold turkey ha ha.





Also, don't text him back and then argue it will mostly send mixed signals and set you up for something unexpected if you try to explain yourself, just simply say ';it is over between us'; you can use manners if you'd like but on a general level something of the like of which I quoted in the parenthesis's to be said and then nothing else so that you won't send mixed signals and seem unsure of yourself.





Unless you want to continue to talk to him but it sounds as if he is seeing how far you are willing to go with him even though he admitted that he no longer wants to be friends.
Ignore. You don't want to get back with him. Contacting him at all will constitute (in his mind) your wanting to get back together, and you don't want to lead him on. Can you block his number? I would.
If you don't want to continue having any sort of relationship (friendship, etc.) with him, ignore him. If you text him back, it'll only encourage him to send more.
if you really want nothing to do with them then tell them that or ignore them. but if you want to still be friends whish is obviously what he's trying to do then gio along with it.
Just ignore that a**hole


He will get the message that u dont like him and if u keep messing with him he will think you like him.
he is probably trying to remain close friends with you because you guys did once go out and he doesnt want to lose you as a friend
tell him that you would prefer not to talk to him, and would appreciate it if he stopped texting you.. then after that don't answer back, or block his number..
Ignore! He'll get the message.





Answering him will only encourage him.
Ignore the a hole
i have so many ';ex boyfriends '; that it would be impossible for them to contact me !

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